If you've ever felt like your brain, body, relationship or sex just doesn't function the way you have been told they "should", welcome!
This space was built for all of us who have felt this at some point in our life.

About Me
Hi, I’m Dr. Leann Borneman, Clinical Sexologist, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Sex Therapist, and ADHD expert. I help individuals, couples, and parents create relationships and sex lives that actually work with their brains instead of against them.
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My specialty lies in working with folks who have ADHD, but my approach benefits anyone feeling stuck in a world full of unrealistic expectations about who they should be. Together, we throw out the outdated scripts about sex, love, parenting, and productivity, and build something more aligned, more compassionate, and more sustainable.
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Whether you’re navigating desire differences, intimacy roadblocks, sensory overload, parenting with neurodivergence, or just trying to feel more connected and less overwhelmed, I’m here to help you find what works for you, not against you.
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I bring over 7 years of clinical experience, a doctorate in clinical sexology, and a very real understanding of what it means to be wired differently. You don’t need to be perfect. You just need support that honors your truth.
Specialties
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Sexual Dysfunctions (i.g., Erectile Disorder, Low Desire, Pelvic Pain)
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BDSM/Kink
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Education on Executive Function & ADHD
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ADHD in Relationships & Sex/Desire/ Pleasure
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Porn/sex addiction
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Paraphilia's
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Women’s health including Perimenopause and Post Menopause​
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