Hi, I’m Dr. Leann Borneman—Clinical Sexologist, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, and ADHD relationship and sex researcher.

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I help individuals, couples, and parents create relationships and sex lives that actually work with how their brains are wired—not against them.

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My work centers on ADHD, but not in a one size fits all way. ADHD shows up differently in every person and every relationship, which is why my approach begins with mapping your executive functioning, nervous system patterns, stimulation needs, and relational dynamics. From there, we build systems, language, and strategies that are specific to you—your brain, your relationship, your life.

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Rather than forcing people into generic advice or outdated scripts about sex, love, parenting, or productivity, we examine what’s happening beneath the surface. Desire differences, stimulation needs, porn use, sensory overload, emotional shutdown, parenting stress, and relationship conflict often aren’t character flaws—they’re signals of a disconnect between expectations and how the brain functions.

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I bring over seven years of clinical experience, a doctorate in clinical sexology, and a deep understanding—both professional and personal—of what it means to be wired differently. This work isn’t about fixing you. It’s about understanding how you function, then designing support that makes your life and relationships more sustainable, connected, and honest.

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You don’t need to be perfect. You need support that’s precise, individualized, and grounded in how you actually work.